A much-loved city restaurateur has died after a four-year illness which he navigated with "unbelievable grace, strength and courage".
Richard Hughes, chef-director of The Assembly House in Norwich, had been receiving treatment for the past 18 months.
He worked his last shift in the kitchen in December 2023 but continued to work in other roles up until a few days before his death.
In a tribute shared to social media, his wife emphasised Mr Hughes wanted the establishment to "remain very much business as usual" but that the team was "devastated" to say goodbye.
'It's been my life'
It also included some words that Mr Hughes had written shortly before his death.
“A lot of my sadness over the last few months has been the fact that I can’t get into my kitchen, that I won’t cook the 2024 Xmas menus I’ve written and I can’t cook the dishes from the Waitrose Magazine’s French classics edition," he had said.
Here he can be seen celebrating the end of 2016 at his cookery school (Image: Denise Bradley)
“It’s been my life, and the sadness for me is that I’ve lost that. I love it so much.
“But of course, it’s not just about the food, it never has been. It’s the joy of giving, of looking after people, of giving them respite from their day-to-day, making memories that will last and most importantly, bringing glamour into people’s lives.
“And it’s working with my family, my very best friends, my very favourite people. What a privilege. I’ve been an incredibly lucky boy.”
His life and career
Mr Hughes had a vibrant and successful career in the food and hospitality industries.
He began as a kitchen pot wash at The Imperial Hotel in Great Yarmouth at the age of 15.
He opened his first restaurant, Number 24 in Wymondham, in 1991 and during his time in Wymondham started teaching at the Hotel School at City College Norwich.
Mr Hughes welcomed dancer, Wayne Sleep, to his cookery school in 2017 (Image: Denise Bradley)
In 2002, he opened The Lavender House at Brundall and founded the Richard Hughes Cookery School soon after.
He and Iain Wilson took on the historic Assembly House in 2009 and he relocated his cookery school there in 2017.
Mr Hughes' impressive CV won him the Outstanding Achievement Award at the Norfolk Food & Drink Awards in 2023.
Mr Hughes at The Lavender House in Brundall in 2008 (Image: Archant © 2008)
The beloved chef is survived by his wife Stacia, children Alison and Stacey, grandsons Isaac, Miles and Bennett, brothers David and Phillip and step-children Ruby and Cole.
The family would like to thank the loving care he received at the Norfolk and Norwich University Hospital which treated them with "love, dedication and devotion" which will "never be forgotten".
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Tributes to Richard HughesHow sad to hear that Richard has pass away he was a great chief remembering him doing the food for our daughters wedding and we love the Assembly house afternoon. tea he will be sadly miss Heartfelt condolences to his family
Tributes to Richard HughesMany visits,to tge Lavender House, and,especially our 25th anniversary, were made so special by Richard. I attended numerous cooking schools and remember each one because of the warmth and dedication he showed to all who attended. Generous, kind, funny and most of all a true gentleman of our time. Taken far too early but for all who knew him, the memory will never leave us. Thank you Richard.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard commissioned us to carry out work for him when our business was just starting out.. his unwavering support of our small local business was unwavering… I’m so sad to hear of his passing & sincere condolences to Stacia & family .. Genuinely a lovely man
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard wasn’t just about the food. We were regular at The Lavender House and Richard and I would talk about our joint love of Billy Bragg as he always found time to greet you at your table. The food was of course superb and the transition to the Assembly Rooms brought more creativity from Richard and his team. Much Missed.
Tributes to Richard HughesOur condolences to Stacia and family on this very sad time.
Tributes to Richard HughesMy thoughts are with the family he was a lovely man. I worked with him at the Imperial hotel we were a great team and he will be greatly missed.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was a wonderful, kind, generous man. I had the privilege of being part of his Ladies in Lavender lunches. Always down to earth and did not let fame go to his head. So creative and remained local to his Norfolk roots.
Tributes to Richard HughesI worked with Richard in his kitchen and restaurant at No.24 while I was completing my City and Guilds certificates at City College. Richard took me under his wing and taught me so much. He had an unwaivering passion for creating edible art and I will always remember how much encouragement he gave me and his incredible patience and brilliant sense of humour. He will be sadly missed. My thoughts are with his family.
Tributes to Richard HughesWhat tragic news, but what a wonderful tribute from the family that is The Assembly House! Richard has made such a mark on the Norfolk Food Scene and his legacy will live on. We’ve known him since those early days at No 24, then at The Lavender House and watched as he built the amazing business in The House. Sending huge condolences to Stacia, his family and everyone who has worked with such a wonderful man! RIP Richard 🙏🏻❤️
Tributes to Richard HughesOne of the best him cooking in the kitchen table for the EDP Norfolk magazines leaving lunch. Such a special man will be hugely missed. Sending thoughts to his family x
Tributes to Richard HughesI first got to know Richard in 2002. He contacted me to do various work inside and out at the Lavenda House in Brundall. Over the years we built up a great work relationship and allwsys invited myself and my partner for dinner. And i still have one of your books (puddings galore) What can I say. Just a great human being and he will be missed by myself and so many others. RIP
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was such a kind and generous man! When I worked at Flegg High School, I had the privilege of working with Richard regularly, where he would treat our pupils to a complimentary three-course meal. The children were always astonished by his generosity and kindness. More recently, he supported me in the redesign of St Stephen's church kitchen, where his advice saved us a considerable amount of money. Richard made such a difference to so many people and will be greatly missed!
Tributes to Richard HughesThe top table at our wedding was named The Lavender House given all the wonderful memories Richard and his team gave us at that outstanding restaurant over the years. A memorable new years eve with just a small radio ushering in the new year, a seat at the kitchen table for the big 40 or just a quiet meal for 2 and then those speical memories with those also now sadly paased.. Always full of joy and happy to talk at length. Gentle and kind with a clear drive and professionalism. And then onto the Assembly Rooms and what an absolute triumph. So many wonderful events and ideas. The list just goes on. Truly a great man full of passion and humility. Rest in peace Richard. You will never be forgotten and thank you.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was a true gentleman and a giant of Norfolk’s food and drink scene. Having first meeting Richard when he officially opened a new restaurant at Africa Alive! he remained an inspiration. My thoughts and condolences to his family, friends and colleagues at such a sad time
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard spent his life supporting young people to become the best possible chefs they could be and particularly also those with special educational needs. He was kind, caring and sensitive to their needs giving them confidence and self belief they could do it. We all cannot thank him enough for his wonderful work. He was the most supportive and caring person and will be so so missed by so many. Rest in peace Richard and know you will never be forgotten by us all. x
Tributes to Richard HughesCondolences to Richard’s family at this heartbreaking time. Richard was an amazing man who would go out of his way to help young people and inspired many amazing young chefs to follow their dreams and never stop learning and improving. He will leave a huge void in hospitality throughout Norfolk.
Tributes to Richard HughesFirst met Richard at No 24, what an attitude to life, thereafter we followed him to Lavender House, took my family many times to his restaurant and we all had pleasure of eating his delicious food and then discuss afterwards. Latterly we visited the Assembly Rooms and nothing changed, just Richard hosting, it’s been a pleasure, but what a shame he been taken much to young. My sympathies with family
Tributes to Richard HughesI had the pleasure of seeing and talking to Richard when he came in for his treatment. A lovely brave and positive man. We would always have a chat and a laugh,and he would tell me some really funny stories his lovely wife Stacia with him for her endless support. So sorry to hear that he has passed away, will be sadly missed by his wife & children but also all of his employees. RIP Richard you'll never be forgotton
Tributes to Richard HughesI had the pleasure of seeing and talking to Richard when he came in for his treatment. A lovely brave and positive man. We would always have a chat and a laugh,and he would tell me some really funny stories his lovely wife Stacia with him for her endless support. So sorry to hear that he has passed away, will be sadly missed by his wife & children but also all of his employees. RIP Richard you'll never be forgotton
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was the kindest, most generous, funny and courageous person. I loved every minute of the cookery courses he taught and the events I attended, and I consider it one of the greatest privileges of my life to have known him. He made everyone he met feel special but really he was the special one. Thank you Richard you will be so greatly missed.
Tributes to Richard HughesWe went to The Lavender House to celebrate my mother, Violet’s 90th birthday - knowing from previous experience that we would get a delicious and unforgettable meal. The lunch was just gorgeous and the sweet was named in her honour - Brulee ‘ VIOLET’. He will always be with us in the shape of his cookery books - if you have never tried liquorice ice cream do it in memory of Richard. Ann Edmonds
Tributes to Richard HughesSuch sad news. I first met Richard Hughes at the Norwich Hotel and catering school at City college in 2002 when he was my teacher he was a really amazing person who was very kind and helpful. He would be so sadly missed. I would like to say to his wife and family I am so sorry for your loss.
Tributes to Richard HughesHaving known Richard for over 40 years as a fellow chef he is up with the best and a top guy as well the Norfolk food industry has lost a culinary giant
Tributes to Richard HughesI have been lucky and fortunate to know Richard for over 20 years. Lucky to receive one of his first cook books. A true gentleman, amazingly talented chef, who continued to inspire and share his vision with his successful team. On many occasions he committed his time to the student Chefs at City College Norwich, sharing his knowledge, passion & drive to be the best and received our students for work with open arms. One of a kind and made a huge impact on Norfolk! A true star! My thoughts and sincere condolences to the family. Richard, thank you for the memories.
Tributes to Richard HughesI never had the pleasure of meeting Richard Hughes but I love to eat at the Assembly Rooms, I was hoping to meet him on one of the Cookery Courses I plan to do.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was one of the kindest and most generous of people; if he could help you he would. He was hospitality personified and a champion of the city and the county. He was unfailingly friendly and never let his drive to succeed overshadow his natural warmth, though his talents in the kitchen and beyond have created a great legacy. Our condolences to Stacia and the family, his many friends and colleagues.
Tributes to Richard HughesWe have been privileged to have known Richard from his early days at No24 through his Lavender House time, his cookery school and latterly at The Assembly House. We’ve enjoyed birthdays, cookery courses and intimate dinners at all of his restaurants. Richard’s flair in the kitchen, his unflappable presence amidst apparent mayhem marked him out as a chef of unique skills. He will be missed by so many but memories will live forever in our hearts and minds. Phil and Mo Cowen
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard has made a huge mark on the Norfolk food and drink scene and has inspired many in the industry. Sending my condolences and best wishes to his family, friends and colleagues past and present.
Tributes to Richard HughesWe only had the pleasure of meeting Richard twice — the first time at his wedding to Stacia and later on while shopping in Holt. He was a really lovely man with a wonderful sense of humour. Our thoughts and love are with Stacia and his family at this sad time.
Tributes to Richard HughesMy daughter had the good fortune of knowing Richard as she worked at the Assembly House whilst she was studying for her degree. He was so kind and generous with his time when she did her dissertation on whether Norfolk is considered a food and drink tourism destination. Richard was so helpful and knowledgeable and the information he shared along with his wealth of experience that he freely and generously offered was invaluable. She got the highest score for a dissertation in her whole year and part of that success was thanks to Richard. Such a lovely man who will be missed terribly. Deep condolences to all his family.
Tributes to Richard HughesI'm so saddened by this sad news. I worked with him at the Theatre Royal many years ago and Richard was the most respectful chef i ever worked with,i never heard him raise his voice,he didn't need to as he had everyone's respect. Condolences to all his family at this sad time.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard never failed to make you feel special, even though he was busy, always had time for a chat. He was a clever, charming, inspirational man. And his food was amazing!!! He will be much missed. R.I. P Richard.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was so wonderfully kind to us all when we held our Norfolk Tweet Up Networking Groups at The Assembly House
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was a truly generous man with his time, several years ago he gave our daughter her first work experience in a fine dining kitchen, this was her first step on a career in cooking. She is now a Pastry Sous Chef in London. Thank you Richard for that opportunity.
Tributes to Richard HughesSuch sad news. Richard was such a lovely person. He brought so much joy through his Norfolk restaurants. I knew Richard when I did my apprenticeship at the Burlington hotel 46 ago, he worked next door at the Imperial Hotel.
Tributes to Richard HughesI remember so fondly having Richard on my morning show at BBC Radio Norfolk way, way back. You might imagine cookery on the radio was dull, but with Richard it was always fun. He brought his talent, enthusiasm and energy into the radio kitchen. He was a wonderful chef, a wonderful man of Norfolk and will be greatly missed
Tributes to Richard HughesWe send our condolences to all of Richards family ,he will be sadly missed by so many people We first met Richard and his young family in 1989 . RIP Richard Alan and Vera Muttitt and family
Tributes to Richard HughesI only had the pleasure of meeting Richard a couple of times at the Lavender House and at his Cookery School, but he was an absolutely lovely man, and so knowledgable about food and cooking. He will be much missed. Deepest condolences to his family and colleagues.
Tributes to Richard HughesWhat sad news. We have some wonderful memories from romantic dinners at The Lavender House and latterly introducing our children and grandchild to the wonderful afternoon teas at The Assembly Rooms. The food was always exquisite, but more importantly Richard was always such a warm, friendly and generous host, which is often missing in other establishments. Thank you Richard.
Tributes to Richard HughesI have eaten in the Lavender House and at the Assembly House and the food was always delicious and beautifully presented. A sad day indeed for Norfolk. He was an excellent chef and ambassador for the county
Tributes to Richard HughesI have known Richard for 30 years, I met him when I opened my first train Wymonfham Casablanca close to his No 24 He welcomed me to the town and was so supportive, we then had a few occasions when we worked together in events and food demonstrations, there is no restaurateur who has not learnt something from Richard’s around Norfolk, he was the school and the leading example of passion, kindness and joy. It was not long ago when me and him were planning to do a Moroccan night in his lovely Assembly House My thoughts and sincere condolences to his family Rest in peace my dear friend I shall miss you dearly Ali Guenaoui
Tributes to Richard HughesMy Wife & Daughter and their daughter had a fabulous meal at the assembly rooms . Food , service , attention to detail all credit to Richard God Bless you and your Family.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard used to be my neighbor in Grosvenor Road. He and his wife Stacia made my life very entertaining. What a lovely and kind person he was. I am deeply shocked reading the news. After I have moved back to Germany I had to go to the Assembly House to see him. He had always open arms and a friendly word for me even beeing so busy. Richard, you will be so deeply missed. My deepest condolences to the family.
Tributes to Richard HughesA great loss. Richard was a titan not just in the hospitality sector but in business across Norwich, Norfolk and beyond.
Tributes to Richard HughesA real stalwart of fine dining, having come from a similar area in the Fens we had many discussions about natural ingredients. Richard always made an effort to help young chefs and will be sadly missed.
Tributes to Richard HughesSuch a wonderful gentleman. Will be sadly missed. His cooking skills will continue in his .new life thank God for such an amazing person and will be missed by so many x
Tributes to Richard HughesWhen we stayed at the Assembly house for the first time he treated us as if we were special not just ordinary not very rich folk.A lovely man.
Tributes to Richard HughesA great loss to our City and County , I remember going to the Lavender House for our 50th Wedding Anniversary and when I told him he reached for his latest cookery book , signed it and gave it to us as a present , such a kind gesture after a wonderful meal !
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was a true gentleman. His enthusiasm and love of food shone through. He will be sadly missed.
Tributes to Richard HughesSuch sad news. He taught me at Norwich Hotel School in the early 90s and was always so encouraging and supportive, and did so with great humour.
Tributes to Richard HughesRichard was an inspiration and a very kind and wonderful man. He helped me so much at a difficult time and was always there for me even though he was ill himself. I will never forget this nor his great sense of humour ! My thoughts are with Stacia and his family. Very sad news indeed.
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